Nov 3, 2020
This week I am re-airing a listener favorite episode - Not Your F*cking Job. Want equal partnership? Let's start with not taking on impossible tasks -- and then being blamed for not being able to accomplish them. Listen to this episode for more!
A few weeks ago, I posted in my
Facebook group that I was going to write a flipbook called,
Not Your Fucking
Job. And it was going
to be a very simple book about all the things that are not your
fucking job to do for your spouse or partner. You know, things
like:
Helping him heal his childhood
wounds?
NOT YOUR FUCKING
JOB.
Teaching him how to be a good
parent?
NOT YOUR FUCKING
JOB.
Proving your worth or proving
your love to him?
NOT
YOUR FUCKING JOB.
Or
keeping him from cheating on you?
NOT
YOUR FUCKING JOB.
You get the idea.
Well, in this week’s episode I am going to go through about 8-10 scenarios of things that are not your fucking job and explain why you need to stop carrying allll of the weight in your relationship.
After you listen to this episode; if you realize you are doing these things, understand you are doing them out of some need to control. So what IS your job: to uncover why you’re doing these things and then work to fix it, for you — not for him or for anyone else, for you. Only in this way will you have a chance at healing your marriage, or having an amicable divorce.
Here are just a few of the topics I touch on in this episode:
Resources & Links:
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