Feb 15, 2024
Most narratives around narcissism in relationships center on individuals with narcissistic personalities. My guest this week, Dr. Ramani, shifts the focus to the survivors, giving them a voice and discussing the emotional turmoil and psychological impact of being in a relationship with a narcissistic individual.
Through Dr. Ramani’s latest book, "It's Not You: Identifying and Healing from Narcissistic People," she offers invaluable insights into navigating the aftermath of narcissistic relationships, empowering survivors to reclaim their sense of self and find a path forward. Her extensive research and clinical experience offer practical guidance for individuals navigating a divorce or contemplating leaving a narcissistic relationship, providing a beacon of hope and understanding in the journey toward healing.
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Learn more about Dr Ramani:
Dr. Ramani Durvasula is a licensed clinical psychologist in Los
Angeles, CA, Professor Emerita of Psychology at California State
University, Los Angeles, and the Founder and CEO of LUNA Education,
Training & Consulting, a company focused on educating individuals,
clinicians and businesses/institutions on the impact of
narcissistic personality styles. Her academic research was focused
on the impact of personality and personality disorders on health
and behavior. She is an author of multiple books including Should I
Stay or Should I Go: Surviving A Relationship with a Narcissist,
and "Don't You Know Who I Am?": How to Stay Sane in an Era of
Narcissism, Entitlement, and Incivility and her newest book, It’s
Not You: Identifying and Healing from Narcissistic People will be
released in February, 2024 (Penguin Life). Dr. Durvasula is a
faculty member for the APA Leadership Institute for Women in
Psychology, and a consulting editor for the journal Behavioral
Medicine. She has spoken widely on the impact of narcissism on
mental health, relationships and the workplace. She also operates a
popular YouTube channel and podcast (Navigating Narcissism). Dr.
Durvasula is also working with PESI on the development of an
educational and certification program for clinicians working with
clients experiencing the fallout of narcissistic relationships.
Resources & Links:
Phoenix Rising: A
Divorce Empowerment Collective
Dr. Ramani's website
Episode Link:
https://kateanthony.com/podcast/episode-254-its-not-you-identifying-and-healing-from-narcissistic-people-with-dr-ramani/
I’ll also help you identify where you currently stand on this journey, and what’s ahead, with resources to help you move through this process with knowledge and grace.
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